Mature First Date Rules

Just because you're older now, does not mean that you are an expert meeting on the label. Before you finally meet that potential "special someone", it is best to review them and avoid when you are on a first date. We collected answers to common dating mature.

1. Who pays?

Most studies of heterosexual dating mature dates show that most of us already know intuitively - the man pays nearly three-quarters of the time. But what about the predators of different sexual orientations? What if the woman asks the man? The simplest rule is: the person who initiated the date should pay for it.

However, not everyone follows this rule. What to do when the person who asked "was not moving" to pay?

The best thing is to wait for 5 minutes. Perhaps the date will be paid, but there are so engrossed in conversation that he / she has not been harvested control (yet). If the date still does not pay within 5 minutes of a bill on the table, then go ahead and point randomly and say something like: "Can I help you with that?" This is a polite way of saying the date that he / she expected to pay, but that you are ready to go 'Dutch'.

2. What should you talk?

You can talk about everything except:

Sound economic topics. You do not want to look like you dig for gold.

Sex. It 'too early to make peace.

Politics and religion. Again, it is too early for these severe cases. Keep it light.

The arguments are good travel (especially if you both love to travel). You can also ask for the job (but never ask or comment on how he / she does). It 'also sure to ask about the family. The time not to have children? How many and what are their names and ages? And, of course, talk about hobbies - Hiking, watching movies, what it is. This is as safe as you can get on the first day.

3. Where should you go?

There are several things to remember when considering a location for a good maturity date dating first:

It must be affordable. A first date should be in a relaxed environment that makes it easy to know someone better. You can get smarter later, things should get better. This is not the lobster.

You should be able to hear your date. Do not go to a crowded bar where you have to shout to date. A coffee or a casual eatery is a good choice. Choose a location away from noise. To meet someone, you must have a real conversation.

It should be easy to find. You do not want your date will be lost, and you? Avoid "off the radar" places and choose a place that you can obtain both within 30 minutes. It is time for that later.

Avoid too much alcohol. Have a glass of wine is fine, but do not buy a whole bottle and forcing your date to end it with you.