Saturday, August 27, 2011

How Dare You Mature?



So what mature dating for you? I think he can say that after a certain age, you are ranked according to your age. So, by definition, could be described as engaging in dating immature, if you had less!

The problem is that we all know, people in their twenties, thirties and forties, which act as the elderly, and we all know people in their fifties, sixties and seventies, who behave like children.

Many years ago I had an old neighbor of 35 years, who seemed to live life in numbers. Her dress sense was what was the power of Marks & Spencer and the house seemed to show at home, devoid of any personality. Holidays in the same place, and thought it would be the Rock & Roll Mantovani.

So what mature dating mean to you? I guess you could say that after a certain age who are classified by age. So, by definition, could be described as yourself to participate in events immature if they were children!

The problem is that we all know, people in their twenties, thirties and forties, which act as the elderly, and we all know people in their fifties, sixties and seventies, who behave like children.

Many years ago I had an old neighbor of 35 years, who seemed to live life in numbers. Her dress sense was what was the power of Marks & Spencer and the house seemed to show at home, devoid of any personality. Holidays in the same place, and his idea of ​​Rock & Roll would have been Mozart.

While we had a friend who had a house like Doctor Who game with very active social life, especially in the independent music scene and crawled to a foreign mountains hobby. The friend was 72!

Some people may be insulted by the term dating mature, or as sometimes called, seniors dating. Heaven help a person to describe my mother as a parent. His single-parent or mature than he is his body. Physical aging is something that we have very little control outside the body weight, condition and the usual lotions and potions.

For my mother and many others like me and maybe we prefer to judge and be judged by our deeds, not our physical age.

There is a wonderful poem called the poem an old woman, I can not recommend and will definitely make you mourn. The poem begins with the lines -

What do you see nurse, what you see

What do you think when you look at me?

A woman old nasty, not very wise,

Uncertain of habit with faraway eyes.

Who dribbles her food and does not respond

when you say in a loud voice: "I would like you to try?"

Seems unaware of the things you do,

and is never lost a bottom or a shoe.

The poem goes on to say that they have all been wrong, because they see the physical shell and not the dynamic young woman behind the eyes.

Thus, mature dating to me means nothing for the same reason. I refuse to be classified by age or appearance. In My Head, and will continue to work 22.

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